Dear American Soldier, This Must be Said

“One who acts with courage and displays bravery can never be a wasted life.”  

The above quote is from my maternal grandmother.

I was born an American fifty years or so ago. As a child, I was surrounded by a large extended family of unique characters and expected stereotypes, as I suspect most of us experienced growing up in that era. My greatest blessing was exposure to my Mam Maw, who believed her duty was to not only love and support my upbringing – but instill in me the following:

  • My family history. Her repetitive instruction on my Family Tree going back to the 1600s. As age allowed, she would show me pictures, letters, newspaper clippings, medals, and citations, all while weaving the stories of each ancestor who had fought in every American war, including the Revolutionary War. By elementary school, and throughout my early adult life, the instruction included one or all three of my uncles sitting with us to describe their World War II experiences in detail. She had two sons come home in coffins and the three living ones had lifelong injuries including amputations.
  • Patriotism, Honor, and Love of Country. Several times a year crisscrossing three states, we routinely visited any of the three family plots in cemeteries filled with grandfathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, and hometown neighbor sons, all veterans- to lay flowers and miniature flags on their gravesites. On these long highway excursions, she would talk about famous politicians and Generals often quoting them. Her two favorites were Lincoln and Churchill. Over pull-off rest stops, we would picnic and she would use certain picnic items to share how she and her family rationed certain foods both in WW1 and WW2. I learned about concepts like the USO Stagedoor Canteen, Rosy the Riveter, Tokyo Rose, and so many others.
  • Understanding of the US Constitution and Civic duty. Between my father and Mam Maw, I must have read the Federalist and Anti-Federalist Papers several times before I went to High School American History Class. My Grandmother was our personal talking tour guide as our family traveled to historic sites like the Federal City, Gettysburg Battlefield, Williamsburg, Independence Hall, and too many to list.
  • America was an ideal and aspiration one must commit to upholding. Being an American was a privilege only granted by those who secured our freedoms and defend them through service and sacrifice. 

Imagine if we could clone my Mam Maw and give her to every child in their Christmas stocking…
She was the norm just five decades ago. And while there are pockets of adults her worth raising American children today amongst the ” woke wave” of anti-Americanism hoards – they are certainly not held up as a norm presently.

Americans’ cage has been rattled as they watch Biden’s “Fall of Kabul” play out across their social platforms. The surreal scenes now seep into our collective consciousness and will have far greater ramifications in the years ahead. But the American Soldier must reject this emotional scarring served up by propagandists and political players. The political class and Americans asleep at the switch who voted for them own this baggage, this gaping wound of hubris and failure – not the American Soldier.

Who is the American Soldier? It is not the one, or the many, but a reflection of the all, who serve as both the reservoir and shield for liberty.
This experiment in freedom is indeed fragile. It depends not solely on the storytellers of history. No, it rests firmly on the shoulders of those willing to wear the American Military uniform and fearlessly choose service over self. It breathes within the commitment and sacrifice to defend liberty for all others.

Our US Constitution is a covenant among free people. The parties to this sacred contract are, on the one hand, a group of courageous warriors who rise to defend our freedoms and liberate those who are oppressed. And on the other, the rest of us, who benefit from placing those warriors between us and harms way while we bask in the comforts and freedoms their risk provides. Not one of those basking may deem any warrior ever died in vain- in Afghanistan or elsewhere.

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Where did this phrase come from, ‘died in vain?” President Abraham Lincoln stood in Gettysburg’s graveyard and urged those gathered to fight on for the survival of the United States so that those interred in what ground would not have died in vain. But President Lincoln was not making a case that a soldier who loses a battle or even the war gave his sacrifice in vain. President Lincoln specifically talked about America itself, its ideals, are what gives the soldier’s life and subsequent death meaning.

Lincoln was expressing what my Mam Maw instilled in me. There is an honor and moral righteousness in fighting and even dying for what you believe. But what you believe is your choice and never predicated on those powers that be at any given time that shape policy or make wrong decisions. Bad policy can’t negate a loyal soldier’s journey. Loyalty to our country’s ideals, not policy.

The value of a soldiers’ service lies in their commitment to America’s ideals. No matter the war or era, every soldier recognizes governance as an imperfect paradigm that becomes deeply flawed at times. Yet still chooses to serve as an act of faith, as a sentinel at the gate, to represent strength and unshakable resolve that America is an ideal reborn defending her and if need be -in the ultimate sacrifice.

Americans who perished in defense of our nation and defense of the Afghan people did not waste their courage and did not die in vain. Policy decisions can’t tarnish a soldier’s ultimate sacrifice no matter the President or political party.

You, the noble soldier joined not to become an aggressor but to be a protector. You fight and die to protect what is the notion of America, liberty. “The strategic value of a single sacrifice cannot be known for many years, even decades.” As the adage often attributed to Einstein reminds us, not everything that counts can be counted.” Just because , value is beyond sight doesn’t mean it does not exist. 


The Talmud teaches that whoever saves one life, saves the world entire. Charge the politicians as failures and demand a taxpayer accounting. But any judgments about the value of an individuals’ soldier’s sacrifice are sacrosanct and should be revered as so. 

Abraham Lincoln also said while marking the solemn soldierly march into the afterlife, their sacrifice is “far above our poor power to add or detract.” We owe them reverence and care with our words; in essence, their noble deaths have elevated them beyond the pigpen of politics.”

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President Reagan was right. My understanding or appreciation for freedom, honor, and sacrifice was not in my DNA. I like all other Americans learned about America’s ideals, about the meaning of freedom from those Americans who served and sacrificed, not from the politicians and war college strategists who have made so many disastrous calculations. I saw the sacrifice in the faces of my ancestors in photographs, I heard the soulful acceptance of fate listening to their letters read out loud, and I felt the cold metal in my hands that seared into me their love of country.

Only the American Soldier, by their unwavering commitment to defend our American ideals and freedoms ensures that the next generations remain free. And that is a sacrifice no American should ever take in vain.

On behalf of myself and others, including the misguided, damaged “woke” misfit Americans who seem to know no better- we humbly thank you and are forever indebted for your sacrifice. Your fallen comrades and each of you are the standards of what it is to be an American.

 RWR original article syndication source.




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  1. So very well stated, Beka. I am not an American but I share that same commitment to the ideals poignantly expressed and to the everlasting honour of all who, in Lincoln’s words, have sacrificed on the altar of freedom. God bless them all.

  2. Beautifully written and heart felt. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for everything you have sacrificed for this country. It is because of you we all get to live the lives we live! God bless!

  3. Amazing article Bekah, what an amazing your mamaw was. your entire family. but those who make sure they are remembered share in thier honor. as you now do, by sharing them with us. my family doesn’t have such a history, what history we had was lost to a tornado that left my grandpa an orphan at five. To know as you do, just saying Bekah where you lead i will follow your family you have earned that right. be blessed. be strong be sure your a precious vessel of knowledge courage wisdom that you may think is common it i assure you is not. to who much is given much will be required. Bekah lead the way. please.

  4. A Powerful, profound and very personal article reminding us of those who made the supreme sacrifice and those who continue to put their lives on the line and that it falls upon all of us to do our part while we still have some freedom left to do it.

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Written by Bekah Lyons

"The simple step of a courageous individual is to not take part in the lie. One word of truth outweighs the world." Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

I was born and raised in the enigma known as "The Big Easy." There, rooted along the banks of the great Mississippi River between the creeping bayou and Lake Pontchartrain, I was conscripted on all things pertaining to human nature.  I am the quintessential southern woman, that is to say, I defy most could never accurately define what that label truly represents.  Brined below sea level where one respects; the haunts lingering about, the force of storm surge, the ethos of Mardi Gras, and the sanctity of generational family-I know what it is to belong to an organically diverse culture.

Early on in life, my career path serpentined and led to brief stints of living varied experiences as I indulged my passions for painting, musical theater, and the culinary arts. My young experiences evolved my purpose and honed my intuitive skills and I became a Medical Professional specializing in mental health with a focus on child/adolescent needs. After living decades in NOLA, and after hurricane  Katrina unearthed the realities of modern-day inner cities, I made the pivotal decision to relocate to where my family and I spent our summers in a quest to find security and civility in my life.

High up on one of the "grandfather mountains" I now perch in a Smoky mountain community in East Tennessee. Although, I would not trade my formative years in Louisiana, unfortunately,  that era of  America  is  no longer obtainable in the times we live - changing course was the best decision "Evah!"

I am a warrior  for freedom and truth , steeped in my ancestral history ,I am constantly reminded that stillness and introspection expands the mind and heart to possess a more nuanced understanding of all things in our internal and external world. We are all destined to bash ourselves against the rotted cultural rocks of humanity's unraveling until we recognize that a shared moral tone is essential for a free society. A healthy culture is one comprised of many unique people who offer shading and depth to the experience of living, yet all choose to accept basic truths that bind us all together-a societal moral tone. Intolerance  , censorship, intersectionality, cancel culture, apathy ,and ignorance will only groom oppression and tyranny.  Critical thought, differentiation, and dissent is your individual right granted not by government -and must always be protected, championed, and defended.

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